Pastry Swap

Really that's my creative way of saving Cookie Exchange.  Heard so much about these events that I have decided I want to throw one.  So after coaxing everyone into attendance, I am now stressed about how to make it a festive and memorable event.

I used to throw great parties.  My fund raisers were well attended and full of laughs.  My dinner parties were delicious and delightful.  It may sound like I am a little full of myself, but I really think throwing a party is something I do well. Probably because I enjoy it so much.  Well I haven't had a party at my house in a few years (of course not counting the at least monthly family parties).  Too many other things going on I guess.  Which explains why I am a little nervous about this one.

Last night I was up at 12:30 am and did not go back to sleep until 5 am, which is only an hour before I hear the lovely sound of the URG machine from my son's room.  Anyway, I spent the time preparing a menu and decorating the dining room.  Once everything opened I ran to Wegmans and to the liquor store.  Now all I have to do is put everything together.

To me, having someone over to your house is a big deal.  I consider it a huge gesture of warmth and care, so I try hard to make everyone feel comfortable.  Of course if a guest is evil I have been known to ask them to leave.  Basically revoking future invites as well.

Here are my personal steps to having a great party:
1) Invite people you like.  DONE!
2) Have a specialty drink.  Kir Royal for tomorrow.  Also have plenty of liquor on hand, it seems to make everyone including the hostess more relaxed.
3) Make a ton of food.  I have a bunch of new appetizers to create.  Remember to let guests know that if all the food is horrible, you will order pizzas.  Again, it eliminates the stress.
4) Find party music.  Christmas cds for the cookie exchange.
5) Candles and low lights - that way you do not have to focus on too much cleaning and all the things that are wrong with your house.
6) Get everything done at least 2 hours in advance so you can take a hot bath, have a cocktail and be ready to entertain.

Although I am a little anxious, I cannot wait to see my girlfriends.  This is the first cookie exchange for several ofmy friends and I think we all have the same attitude:  If it doesn't work, have another cocktail and laugh it off.  Its just cookies :-)

Wish me luck!